Someone, somewhere right this second is being
bullied. What are you going to do about it? Most people will do nothing, which
is the reason why bullying has become such a huge problem in our society today.
It seems like every day we hear about yet another bullying incident. Someone committing
suicide or killing others all because they were bullied, but how many reports
do you see where something is actually being done about bullying? When do you
see someone being punished for harassing someone else or hear about someone stepping
in and stopping someone from being bullied? Almost never, and I think it’s
about time we change that. We all need to try to help stop this bullying issue
from getting worse.
Millions of children are bullied each year in
America. Over 3.2 to be exact. The documentary Bully tracks the stories of five families dealing with bullying and
exposes the true struggle most kids go through every day. One child named Alex
was bullied day in and day out, at school and even on the bus ride home,
without a single person reporting it. Even Alex himself never told his parents
about the severity of what was going on. The only reason Alex finally got help
was because the producers were worried about his safety and told his parents.
This is what happens all the time around the country. People hear about
bullying, or even witness it with the own two eyes and still do nothing about
it. About 56% of students have reported seeing some type of bullying occur in
their school, but only 20 to 30 percent of those students have actually
reported the incidents to an adult. Even when reported, teachers will only
intervene about 4% of the time. And when they do intervene, over two thirds of
students state that the help is infrequent and ineffective. In the documentary,
once Alex’s parents told the principle about the incidents, she said she would
“take care of it”, the exact same thing she had told his parents in the fall. Even
the adults who have the power to help, don’t do anything to stop this problem.
It’s not just the responsibility of adults to
fix this problem, it’s up to the students as well. It has been reported that if
a bystander intervened in bullying, it would stop within 10 seconds 57% of the
time. But if we just ignore it, it doesn’t get reported and nothing can be done
about. Or something even worse can happen. The person being bullied can take
matters into their own hands. For youth between the ages of 10 and 24, suicide
is the third leading cause of death. It accounts for about 4,400 deaths per year, according to
the CDC. And for every suicide, there are at least 100 suicide attempts. And
about half of these suicides among young people are related to bullying. These
victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than
non-victims. It’s not just K-12 students who can be pushed to kill themselves
because of bullying, older kids can be affected too. An article from Time
Magazine reported the death of a college freshman at Rutgers University named
Tyler Clementi. He jumped off the George Washington Bridge in New York City
because he was being bullied about his sexual orientation. He even posted on
Facebook "jumping
off gw bridge sorry." and nobody came to save him. Besides suicide, a victim can also seek revenge. About 75%
of school shootings have been linked to bulling and harassment. This can be seen as a factor in shootings such
as Columbine and Heath High. If someone had spoken up, even the victims themselves,
could these tragedies have been prevented?
Every single state in the United
States has policies and/or laws regarding bullying, but they can’t be put to
use if nobody speaks up about bullying. So the next time you see or hear about
bullying, don’t just sit there and be a bystander, get up and do something.
Because it’s up to us, all of us, to help put an end to bullying. Thank you.
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